Are you stressed, depressed, getting suicidal thoughts, feeling low & insecure in pain, trying to hide out from the world around you because of the recent failure that you have got?
Don’t worry, I am going to share with you 3 practical tips to deal with failure in your life.
WHO IS A FAILURE?
Guys, Before moving ahead, Let me clear you that Events & Ideas may fail, but we as a Human never fail.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU FAIL?
Friends, first of all, congratulate yourself that for the first time in your life, You are in an awakened state, You are not bothered about what’s trending on YouTube, You are not thinking about chatting online etc. Instead, you are thinking about Yourself, You are scared of your Future. You are almost hopeless, disappointed with yourself & don’t trust yourself anymore.
The reality is your parents, relatives & society is on your back because you have been proven wrong. You are going to hear comparisons & suggestions by your loved ones.
They are going to counsel your career who are doing apparently great in their career.
And what you are going to do is to act as an obedient child for some time to get them off your back & as soon you notice everything is normal, you would again go back to those old habits, addictions & activities.
Now, what should you do?
3 TIPS TO OVERCOME FAILURE
- Instead of again lying to yourself by acting on the parent’s rule & wish for some time, I would recommend you to take some time off
- Our relatives & society is very good at giving free advice. So, even if you take their advice, You will be the one who would have to work, learn & walk in that new direction. They are not going to hold your hand & walk you through the entire journey as they have their own lives. So, Instead of talking to everybody & confusing yourself even more, Ask yourself What do you really want?
- The third and most important tip is Take charge of your life, & start taking real actions. You’ve failed in something because you took it for granted. Accepting only doesn’t solve anything. Analyze your activities & habits which brought you to this & completely ban them from your life. Learn from your mistakes & never repeat them again.
In the end, this is for you guys,
ALWAYS REMEMBER, YOU ARE ALONE,
NO MATTER HOW MANY FRIENDS YOU MAKE,
HOW MANY STOPS YOU TAKE,
WHICHEVER DIRECTION YOU MAY GO,
WHICHEVER SEEDS YOU MAY SOW,
YOUR PATH HAS TO BE WALKED BY YOU.. YOU’RE ALONE.
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